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Rushi’s posterous

Rushi Vishavadia  //  25 year old Software Developer based in Dubai.

I blog at http://rushi.vishavadia.com/blog/ and Twitter as @rushiv

Sep 14 / 9:24pm

How to Care for Introverts

How to Care for Introverts (Understanding Our Gifted, November, 1988)

  • Respect their need for privacy.
  • Never embarrass them in public.
  • Let them observe first in new situations.
  • Give them time to think. Don't demand instant answers.
  • Don't interrupt them.
  • Give them advanced notice of expected changes in their lives.
  • Give them 15 minute warnings to finish whatever they are doing before calling them to dinner or moving to the next activity.
  • Reprimand them privately.
  • Teach them new skills privately rather than in public.
  • Enable them to find one best friend who has similar interests and abilities; encourage this relationship even if the friend moves.
  • Do not push them to make lots of friends.
  • Respect their introversion.
  • Don't try to remake them into extroverts.

So true, some people need to learn about this.

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1 comment

Oct 26, 2009
Meghna Gosalia said...
Yea Rite! Rooster! Will remeber it :) :)

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